The Happy Place

the happy place

I’m very excited to announce the publication of my first book! I want to introduce it to you by opening the book to the first page. This page introduces the book better than any other words can. After you read it, follow the links to Amazon to have The Happy Place delivered instantly to your Kindle Reader or your free Kindle app!

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The Happy Place

The Beginning

 “’Who in the world am I?
Ah, that’s the great puzzle!”
~ Alice in Wonderland ~
Lewis Carroll

Do you ever wake in the morning feeling sad or “off,” and you don’t know why? Do you wonder how you can already be feeling anything when you haven’t even had time to think? I used to feel this way every morning. I thought it was normal. My usual response was this: think about the day ahead, search for something good to look forward to, and stack these better feelings on top of the bad feelings until I didn’t feel the negative ones anymore.

It never occurred to me to wonder why I awoke this way. For me, mornings had been like this for as long as I could remember. I accepted these morning feelings as little battles I had to fight. I was good at fighting them. After I had dealt with them, I never gave them any thought at all.

While the morning feelings did not make it onto my list of feelings to examine, many others did. I was adept at facing my feelings and doing something about them. I sought to understand them.

Anthony de Mello, Jesuit Priest, psychotherapist and writer, often said awareness is everything. I had noticed that as soon as I understood why I felt a certain way, I would feel quite a bit better. “Knowing is 90% of the healing!” I used to say. But what about the other 10%?

What do we do when we know why we feel the way we do, but the “knowing” doesn’t make the bad feeling go away? What do we do about the morning feelings and other unwanted feelings that are too low on the radar to merit professional attention, but too prevalent and painful to ignore?

The answers to all these questions came to me while I was traveling in Europe with my daughter. But the story began long before the wheels of the plane touched the runway on the other side of the ocean…

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$4.99 – available at Amazon.com in Kindle format.

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1/ Go to this link to get a free program (called a “Kindle App”) that lets you read Kindle books on your computer!
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3/ Enjoy reading The Happy Place on your Kindle App on your computer!

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Who am I?
Why only $4.99?
Contact me: lori (at) nb.sympatico.ca.

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saramac 7 pts

I started reading your book on the train ride back to Halifax after visiting you with Alex. I started it – and I nearly finished it. There was something about the way the words flowed flawlessly that I connected with; something about the realness of everything I had read. It is an incredibly inspiring book and I could sense the amount of passion that was behind every paragraph. As I was reading it, I bookmarked certain pages – ones that I felt I didn’t understand at the time, and ones that had quotes that I wanted to remember. From time to time I go back and re-read those pages and I find myself drawing inspiration from them – so thank you and well done! :)

Lori 1857 pts moderator

saramac Hi Sarah! I'm glad you enjoyed the book. Thank you for your kind words! Did you start a blog? I followed your profile link - I am not familiar with Tumbler. How does that work?

By the way, today, Valentines Day, The Happy Place is free at Amazon.com - pass it on okay?

:-)

Lori

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saramac 7 pts

Lorisaramac

I just tweeted the link :)!

Tumblr is basically just a place where I post pictures or sayings that I like - I have thought about starting an actual blog though - I'll let you know when that happens!

Lori 1857 pts moderator

saramac For sure let me know. I like what you're doing on Tumblr! Thanks for tweeting the link! :-)

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3dmodelsart 22 pts

Hey Lori, I went ahead and downloaded your book from amazon will be a good read before sleep :)

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Lori 1857 pts moderator

3dmodelsart Hi Alan! I hope you enjoy the book! Thanks for the purchase!

Lori

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cary.collinslpc 10 pts

Hi Lori,

I'm a new subsriber, thanks to Ali Macaluso. I'm a psychotherapist and your book sounds very interesting...I'll check it out!

Lori 1857 pts moderator

cary.collinslpc Hi Cary,

I'm excited to hear what you think of it! Glad you're a subscriber....you raise the bar for me - thanks! :-)

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Sonia (Sunnnee) 43 pts

Congrats Lori, I can't imagine all the work that went into your new book and I applaud you for getting it done! I will grab a copy!

Lori 1857 pts moderator

Sonia (Sunnnee) Hi Sunnnee! Thank you! It was, as they say, a labor of love. I hope you enjoy it!

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KDillabough 1076 pts

Congrats again Lori! It was my pleasure to review your book on Amazon. I wish you every success! Kaarina

Lori 1857 pts moderator

KDillabough Thank you Kaarina! I really love your review!

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KDillabough 1076 pts

Lori Honoured to have done it and delighted that you like it.

Craig McBreen 285 pts

Hi Lori,

Looking to buy a new laptop or iPad, so I can untether from the desktop :) Tough decision, but when I do I'll get the kindle app and buy the book, then you can bug me to give you a review on Amazon :) Seriously, I would be very happy to write one! Good luck with the book. And I agree with Stu, very nice cover shot!

Lori 1857 pts moderator

Craig McBreen It is good to untether from the desktop! I bought a Kindle Reader not too long ago and I love it! Before that I was reading with my Kindle App on my iPod! The iPad would have a larger screen for that!

I'll hold you to that offer Craig! As long as you like the book as much as you like the cover! ;-)

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Craig McBreen 285 pts

Lori Hold me to it, and I'm sure I'll love it.

Stuart Mills 106 pts

Lori, I won't repeat what I said about the book in my review, and my e-mail back to you, but I will say this:

I wish you the very best of luck and the very best of success with The Happy Place. You've put a lot of effort, passion, awareness, and heart into this, and it's been exhilarating to hear of the writing process, and your excitement behind this.

BTW, is that your daughter on the cover? :-)

Lori 1857 pts moderator

Stuart Mills Good eye Stu! It is my daughter. We took that shot in the sunset in Santorini one evening. How perfectly it worked out for a cover of a book that was only a thought in my head at the time!

Thanks you again for your very kind words!

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MommyLabs 8 pts

My Dear Lori,

I started reading the book today and could not put it down for a while, it was so absolutely engrossing. I haven't gotten till the end yet. But, I don't want to hurry through it. I want to savour each thought, each story that you've shared. Talking about stories - that's what makes your book so unique, powerful and personal. Lori, as I was reading, I could not stop marveling at how genuinely, intensely and passionately you have shared events, anecdotes and stories from your life.

I loved how you deftly kept moving between the past and the now - connecting your childhood memories and stories with the present. It was a riveting read, my dear. I can't wait to resume reading tonight. Had to leave mid way as my daughter came from school.

It interests me all the more because, in it you've shared a powerful lesson in parenting as well. How the mind of a child works and how it can shape his entire life and leave impressionable mark! My God - you are such a talented writer and a sensitive, intelligent and thinking person!

Congratulations, dear for this intensely meaningful and enjoyable read at the same time. No self help book that I've read before was as engrossing. And, I mean every word of it. :)

Lori 1857 pts moderator

MommyLabs Aw Rashmie, what a touching review! Thank you so much! I love how you say you are savouring it rather than reading it too fast. I know as a parent I couldn't "catch" every thing I did wrong, but I'm hopeful that my children will be able to work through my mistakes with the aid of this book or others! It's the best I could do for them - and we all do the very best we can, don't we!? Again, thanks SO much!

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lifeforinstance you did? Congrats! I'll def check it out. Great news! :) Yes very much with Livefyre :)



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