Articles Posted in the " life " Category


  • Why it’s Hard to Be In The Moment

    It seems to me that often how we feel about what is happening in the present moment is not really about what is happening.  Our struggle to be in the moment is often a valiant one because..


  • Have You Got it All Figured Out?

    “I finally got it all together and then I forgot where I put it.” ~ approximately accurate quote – I forget who said it Have you ever felt that way? Sometimes I feel as if figuring it..


  • Are You Normal?

    I was reading a post recently and it got me thinking about being normal. I don’t know if I ever have been considered normal, not in my thinking or in my actions and I have a feeling..


  • How Do You Define Success?

    What makes a person a success in life? I learned a little about this when I was just nine years old and in the fourth grade. I had a wonderful teacher who joked with us and laughed at herself..


  • What Life Rule Would You Make?

    We know that bad things do happen to good people.  So let’s imagine for a moment that we could each remove one “bad thing” from the table of Life. What one Life rule would you make? Would it..


  • What Do You Really Know For Sure?

    Recently, after looking at all the posts in the Life User’s Manual, Bryan asked me if “… some of the conversations have even changed your perspective on the topics you wrote about.” Yes! The conversations here on the porch have changed..


  • Do You Believe in Destiny?

    We’ve talked about happily ever after and now it’s time to talk about the mechanism which led you to one another. Do you believe in destiny? I love hearing stories about how couples meet. My family history..


  • Is The Universe a Friendly Place?

    “I think the most important question facing humanity is “Is the universe a friendly place?’” -Albert Einstein I’ve always been intrigued by this question. Einstein goes on to say that if we feel the universe is unfriendly we..