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  • How Do You Spend Your Money?

    Recently I read The Weathy Barber Returns. Years ago I had read the original book and I wanted to see what he had to say all these years (and an economic crash) later. The first half of..


  • What are Your Favourite Summer Activities?

    “Summer afternoon—summer afternoon; to me those have always been the two most beautiful words in the English language.” ~ Henry James If I had to choose one summer activity it would be this; sitting on the shore..


  • Do You Believe the Mind, Body and Emotions are Connected?

    Do You Believe the Mind, Body and Emotions are Connected?

    I am excited to introduce my brother to you! Allan Abbass is a Family-Physician-cum-Psychiatrist who specializes in, researches, and teaches worldwide about a psychotherapeutic treatment model called Intensive Short Term Dynamic Psychotherapy. If you have ever wondered if..


  • What Life Rule Would You Make?

    We know that bad things do happen to good people.  So let’s imagine for a moment that we could each remove one “bad thing” from the table of Life. What one Life rule would you make? Would it..


  • Do You Give Unsolicited Advice?

    I love the definition of advice in a song by Baz Luhrmann: “Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts..


  • Have You Read Any Good Books Lately?

    “Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.” Charles William Eliot My daughter knows me well. For two years now on..


  • What Do You Really Know For Sure?

    Recently, after looking at all the posts in the Life User’s Manual, Bryan asked me if “… some of the conversations have even changed your perspective on the topics you wrote about.” Yes! The conversations here on the porch have changed..


  • Are You Changing the World?

    I admit it; I always wanted to change the world. I’m just now making peace with the fact that probably isn’t going to happen. I’m beginning to wonder if it is a bit too ambitious to aspire to..


  • Have You Ever Had a Recurring Dream?

    We had a great discussion about dreams on the porch a while ago. This time I thought it would be fun to discuss recurring dreams. Have you ever had one? I’ve had a handful of recurring dreams. Some I’ve been..